Twenty Years with a Narcissist/Marriage Counselor

     In October 2001, two marriage therapists, Dr. Mark Rodney Lohman (Virginia Practicing license number 701000543)  and Mary Rainer Skala, borrowed $500,000 from Lohman’s wife.     The purpose of the loan, Mrs. Lohman has a copy of the loan agreement, was to underwrite a business. Lohman and Rainer Skala pocket the money and told Mrs. Lohman that the company she was funding went bankrupt and her money was gone. Rainer -Skala and Lohman purchased a condo with the money and invested some in the company which sold in 2012 for about $40 million. Rainer -Skala/Lohman’s cut was $5 million gross.   In the mid 1990s, Mary Rainer Skala (Then Mary Smith) and her husband, Glenn Smith, then of Burke Virginia, (6900 Courageous Circle) were having marital problems and saw marriage therapist, Dr. Mark Rodney Lohman, (540-341-2856) at his office in Fairfax County. Mary Smith and Lohman, who was also married, immediately began an affair which eventually...

 Aaron  Since your mother won't tell you, I was just told by the police, your father died in 2016, the diocese is awaiting your call and will help you. I'm sorry and in reflection perhaps you were better off not knowing this. But its between you and your mother I suppose. Frankly I'd just forget about it and move along, your father, Glenn, is a good enough guy and that's all you need   John William Tuohy 388 Starkey's Landing Shepherdstown 25443

    The last words I ever said to her were the exact same words I had said to her  twenty years before “You and your boyfriend are the exact same people. There is no difference between you two. He’s a hustler and pimp and you are spineless weasel. If there has ever been two people who deserve each other, it you two” I gave that same short speech at least three times  year for the next twenty years. I wasn’t being mean. She never changed her ways. I didn’t shout them out. I spoke them slowly and methodically because I wanted them be heard. I wanted them to sink in.  Of course the last time I said to that her I wasn't aware she had been seeing Lohman for a more than a year and had been dating him, while she lived with me, off and on for ten tears. I know that because the idiot left copies of their love letters in his wife's computer system and she printed them out.  Screw the memories  and all the kind and gentle words between us because if I had to live...

This is a note from Mary to me, while I lived with her and she seeing her boy friend Mark Lohman on the side. This sort of thig gets them off...anyway, this is the note she sent me. This happened when she was at Holy Angels Academy in Minn. The same priest later married her to her husband. Mary told me that the affair continued for years and that on a trip back home, the priest knocked her up, explaining, to me anyway, why her constantly in drug and alcohol recovery son is a slightly built midget while his brother and father are well over 275 pound and 6 feet, Mary's a big boned girl as well. This poor bastard...she slept with the priest who married them and the marriage counselor  he paid to keep his marriage together and then three couches from her sons teams, the maintenance guy at their first apartment in northern Virginia.....  I was in high school when I knew him and he was in charge of the youth group  He never XXXXED me.  He let me see his XXXX  in the...

 

 

    By the end of 2025 she has used a series of names including Mary Jean Smith, Marguerite Rainer Skala, Marguerite M Rainer Skala, Mary Rainer Skala, Mary Smith, Marilyn Smith,  Marguerite Mary Rainer-Skala, ,Marguerite Rainer-Skala, Marguerite Skala, Marguerite M Rainer Skala, Mari Lyn Smith and Mary J Smith and now Mary Lohman.