Twenty Years with a Narcissist/Marriage Counselor

 And here we have Mary barging to Lohman about going to a convention while she lived with me and finding a guy to have sex with......this is why people usually erase their messages catch on computers I was at the my march conference again and since I had been to the same conference at least ten times, everything looked familiar, the hotel, the neighborhood, the other hotels, the restaurants.   The conference is always in March but this year St.Patrick's Day was during the conference.   That made me a little sad because I always like to be home with my baby on St.Patrick's Day.   A bunch of people from the conference were going out to an Irish Bar to celebrate, so I decided to join in.   It was packed and their was music and singing.   We got a drink and stood around the bar chatting with other people.   There were alot of guys in the bar, obviously alone on travel, and just hanging out. The weather was hot in California and it was hotter still in the...

   After Lohman badgered Mary into getting a therapists degree, she went off on a cruise with several female therapists. This is her report to Lohman about the cruise which he didn't bother to erease from his computer that he left behind    It was the third day of the cruise and I we wer to be at sea all day.   I was bored of the casino and there were no interesting shows to attend.   I lay by the pool in the sun waiting for lunch.   Our seating time for lunch was at 12:30 so at noon I went back to my cabin and threw on a sundress and went then went to lunch.   At lunch our waiter commented on my sundress and told me that I looked pretty.   He seemed very focused on my during lunch and asked me several times what I planned on doing in the afternoon.   I told him I really didn't know and shared my thoughts on being bored with the casino and tired of sitting by the pool.   He offered that he knew some great parts of the ship and t...

  It was a little scary.   A lot of pressure to perform and   if you weren't attracted to the men it was hard to get excited.   But it was also very sexy. It was so naughty and erotic.   Knowing that you would have a man sucking your pussy or your tits that night that you didn't know was erotic.   When you got there and looked at who was there and then picked someone out someone that you thought was hot it aroused me.   Everyone knew why they were there, so it was a matter of getting down to business.    Having some drinks and sizing each other up and flirting always made inhibitions go down.   By the time that you were making out with someone and touching their cock or they were sucking my tits I was usually pretty hot.   I was much blonder than I am now.  And my hair was quite short.   I never got involved with how it was put together or asked about it.  So it probably was some sort of swinger's club. ...

 Here's another adventure retold for Lohman's benefit...and left behind as a copy in home computer....Mary travelled with her son to Canada for some sort of hocky thing, she told me about it as well, her son was humiliated because Mary and the French guy arrived back at the hotel with all of the team and the other parents awaiting for them so they could leave    Canada.   We were in his car.   It was my last night there.    I was going home in the morning.   He took me sightseeing in his truck and then parked it somewhere. Can't remember where.   He moved me close to him on the seat and then started to kiss me.   I really wasn't thinking about anything else happening but the kissing got hot and he started to unbutton my shirt under my jacket.   I saw that he was hard and I was curious what his cock looked like so   I decided to unzip his pants.   He was a little surprised, but he didn't stop me.   I took out his cock ...

This is Mary's report to Lohman about a fling she had a blind technology convention at a hotel in Central Florida....while she was living with me....the 83 year old didn't clean the catch in the computer before he was tossed out of the house armed guard....the Tim guy she's talking about is some sort of big deal in the blind technology world, or at least he was at the time, he was from Ireland    I walked one block to the hotel next door and went into the Parrot bar around 9PM.  The night was balmy and the bar had a part that was open to the outside and overlooked the pool.  The bar was busy with lots of people but I didn't recognize anyone from the conference so that was good.  I ordered a drink at the bar and then sat down at a table and looked at who was there.  I noticed a middle aged good looking man across the room sitting by himself.  I got up and walked closer.  He seemed relaxed with no particular agenda and didn't seem to know anyone els...

  Closure from you was easy. It was just a matter of understanding that you never the person I thought you were because you lie so wonderfully well about everything, and your mentally disturbed. I have no respect for you. I’m not even angry. I just see you in a new way. I never want to talk to you again or see you again. I don’t want you near me. Everything you touch is tainted, your sons are recovery addicts, your ex-husband is humiliated at having known you.  

     In October 2001, two marriage therapists, Dr. Mark Rodney Lohman (Virginia Practicing license number 701000543)  and Mary Rainer Skala, borrowed $500,000 from Lohman’s wife.     The purpose of the loan, Mrs. Lohman has a copy of the loan agreement, was to underwrite a business. Lohman and Rainer Skala pocket the money and told Mrs. Lohman that the company she was funding went bankrupt and her money was gone. Rainer -Skala and Lohman purchased a condo with the money and invested some in the company which sold in 2012 for about $40 million. Rainer -Skala/Lohman’s cut was $5 million gross.   In the mid 1990s, Mary Rainer Skala (Then Mary Smith) and her husband, Glenn Smith, then of Burke Virginia, (6900 Courageous Circle) were having marital problems and saw marriage therapist, Dr. Mark Rodney Lohman, (540-341-2856) at his office in Fairfax County. Mary Smith and Lohman, who was also married, immediately began an affair which eventually...

 Aaron  Since your mother won't tell you, I was just told by the police, your father died in 2016, the diocese is awaiting your call and will help you. I'm sorry and in reflection perhaps you were better off not knowing this. But its between you and your mother I suppose. Frankly I'd just forget about it and move along, your father, Glenn, is a good enough guy and that's all you need   John William Tuohy 388 Starkey's Landing Shepherdstown 25443

    The last words I ever said to her were the exact same words I had said to her  twenty years before “You and your boyfriend are the exact same people. There is no difference between you two. He’s a hustler and pimp and you are spineless weasel. If there has ever been two people who deserve each other, it you two” I gave that same short speech at least three times  year for the next twenty years. I wasn’t being mean. She never changed her ways. I didn’t shout them out. I spoke them slowly and methodically because I wanted them be heard. I wanted them to sink in.  Of course the last time I said to that her I wasn't aware she had been seeing Lohman for a more than a year and had been dating him, while she lived with me, off and on for ten tears. I know that because the idiot left copies of their love letters in his wife's computer system and she printed them out.  Screw the memories  and all the kind and gentle words between us because if I had to live...

This is a note from Mary to me, while I lived with her and she seeing her boy friend Mark Lohman on the side. This sort of thig gets them off...anyway, this is the note she sent me. This happened when she was at Holy Angels Academy in Minn. The same priest later married her to her husband. Mary told me that the affair continued for years and that on a trip back home, the priest knocked her up, explaining, to me anyway, why her constantly in drug and alcohol recovery son is a slightly built midget while his brother and father are well over 275 pound and 6 feet, Mary's a big boned girl as well. This poor bastard...she slept with the priest who married them and the marriage counselor  he paid to keep his marriage together and then three couches from her sons teams, the maintenance guy at their first apartment in northern Virginia.....  I was in high school when I knew him and he was in charge of the youth group  He never XXXXED me.  He let me see his XXXX  in the...

 

 

    By the end of 2025 she has used a series of names including Mary Jean Smith, Marguerite Rainer Skala, Marguerite M Rainer Skala, Mary Rainer Skala, Mary Smith, Marilyn Smith,  Marguerite Mary Rainer-Skala, ,Marguerite Rainer-Skala, Marguerite Skala, Marguerite M Rainer Skala, Mari Lyn Smith and Mary J Smith and now Mary Lohman.